Leaving a Legacy Through Your Story

Have you ever thought about the lasting impact your story could have? The stories we tell – whether they’re personal, fictional, or inspired by our families – carry the power to live on long after we’ve written them. As an author, you have a unique opportunity to not only entertain and inspire your readers, but to leave a legacy that can be passed down through generations.

Why Sharing Your Story Matters

Writing your story isn’t just about sharing your voice in the moment—it’s about preserving a piece of your identity, experiences, and lessons for future generations. Whether you’re writing memoirs, family histories, or even fiction inspired by your personal experiences, your words can become a bridge connecting generations to the past.

Here are a few reasons why it’s worth considering:

1. Honoring Your Legacy

Your family’s history is a treasure trove of wisdom, struggles, triumphs, and culture. By sharing those stories, you can ensure that your legacy is preserved for your children, grandchildren, and beyond. It’s a way to say, “I was here,” and make sure your story is not forgotten.

Example: A family memoir detailing your parents' immigration story or the adventures of your ancestors can become a powerful way to honor their legacy and keep their history alive for future generations.

2. Creating a Connection Across Generations

Your story – whether it’s personal or familial – helps others connect to the broader human experience. By sharing the intimate details of your life, you create a connection that transcends time, allowing future generations to understand what it was like for you or your ancestors. These stories can inspire, educate, and foster empathy in your readers, no matter their background.

Example: Writing a fictionalized account of your family’s struggles during a historic event, like the Great Depression or a world war, can give readers a sense of shared humanity across time and space.

3. Lessons for Future Generations

Our stories often contain important lessons learned from life experiences. By writing them down, you can pass on wisdom that could help future generations avoid mistakes, make better decisions, and better understand the world around them.

Example: The lessons from overcoming personal challenges or navigating complex family dynamics can serve as valuable guidance for those who come after you.

How to Get Started: Sharing Your Own Story or Your Family’s History

If you’re ready to preserve your story or that of your family, here are some steps to get started:

1. Reflect on What You Want to Share

What is the core message or theme you want your story to convey? Are you writing about personal growth, family heritage, resilience, or the challenges you’ve overcome? Take some time to reflect on the parts of your life or family history that are most meaningful to you.

• Personal Story: Write about a turning point in your life – whether it’s a career change, a move to a new city, or a personal challenge that shaped who you are today.

• Family Story: Interview older family members or dive into old letters, photos, and keepsakes to uncover family stories. Whether it’s your great-grandmother’s journey to the U.S. or your father’s war experiences, these stories have the potential to captivate and educate future generations.

2. Start Writing Early and Often

Don’t wait until “the right time” to start writing your story. Start small by jotting down memories or anecdotes. You don’t have to write a book all at once; the process of storytelling can unfold over time.

Tip: Set aside a regular time to write. Even just 15-20 minutes a day can help you build momentum and make steady progress.

3. Embrace the Power of Personal Details

Whether you’re writing your own story or your family’s, it’s the small, personal details that bring your narrative to life. Describe the smells, sounds, tastes, and feelings of the moments you’re sharing. This will make your story not only more memorable but also more relatable.

Example: Instead of just saying, “My grandmother made the best pie,” describe the warm scent of cinnamon filling the house, the way her hands moved as she rolled out the dough, and the joy you felt sitting around the table together.

4. Consider the Impact on Future Generations

As you write, think about how your story will impact future generations. What would you want them to learn? What would you want them to know about who you were and the times you lived through? You’re not just telling your story for today’s readers—you’re leaving something behind that will resonate long into the future.

Tip: Imagine your grandchildren or great-grandchildren reading your words. What would you want them to feel? Inspired? Grateful? Empowered?

The Importance of Preserving Family Histories

Beyond your own personal story, think about the power of preserving your family’s history. Family stories passed down through generations hold significant cultural and emotional value. By writing them down or recording them in any form, you create a living history that may one day be the foundation for future generations to build on.

Your words are powerful. They have the potential to transcend time and become a part of your legacy. Whether you’re sharing your personal journey, your family’s rich history, or a blend of both, you are creating something that can inspire and connect generations to come.

To you and your book!

Looking for some reading recommendations?

Many clients published books in 2024, and some have done so even more recently. I’ve been fortunate enough to work on projects in a variety of genres, but memoirs in particular have been more and more popular over the past few years.

Why do I enjoy working on memoirs and self-help books? Because the authors very much want to help readers. They want to share their pain, their triumphs, their lessons learned, so that others can benefit from that hard-won expertise. While ALL books can be helpful (nothing fills my heart with more joy than curling up with a glass of wine and a good book!), these brave authors really put themselves out there, and the insight they share with readers is so valuable.

I try not to choose favorites, but here are the recently-published books by some clients I have enjoyed working with in particular!

​Jet Lag Junkie: Unfiltered Tales of a Compulsive Wanderer by Jeff Johns

2025 Feathered Quill Award Finalist - Best Memoir

Jeff, an overweight and insecure college student on the verge of dropping out, follows an uncontrollable urge ending up alone nearly 10,000 miles from home weeks after the 2004 Tsunami in Southeast Asia. Desperate to chase every experience possible, Jet Lag Junkie is the vulnerable and raw journey behind one man's quest to find meaning, belonging, and love amidst an ever-changing backdrop of the most unique places on Earth.
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Through deeply personal struggles with severe ADHD, imposter syndrome, anxiety, body image, and burnout, Jeff’s two-decade journey through nearly 100 countries reveals issues seldom discussed in a world that worships perfection and happiness on every screen. Brought to life through adventures from Mount Everest Base Camp in Nepal, being held at gunpoint in Malaysia, being impossibly lost in Bangladesh and detained by military police in Tajikistan, Jet Lag Junkie inspires readers to experience life more deeply, and to get a bit uncomfortable while doing it.
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Often humorous, always intimate, Jet Lag Junkie reveals the compulsive search and painful struggles of growing up. Testing the limits of what Jeff is capable of, how much he is willing to sacrifice before stopping long enough to find someone to enjoy it all with?

​Jumpseat: Jet Setting in the 1970s by Dianna Bennett

When a 20-year-old college student stumbles on her way to marriage, she finds solace in a new life of travel and intrigue. In 1969, with the Viet Nam War raging and the youth of America on fire, Dianna runs away from the pain of rejection and the embarrassment of an engagement gone wrong. As she searches for meaning, two strangers steer her into the arms of Trans World Airlines and the "Jet Set" age of travel. With each new assignment, especially on the Boeing 747, she soon forgets about the life she left behind. Open eyed, yet naive, she earns her wings as she maneuvers through the new and exciting minefields of international travel.

​A Real Nobody a Fake Somebody and Me: A Memoir of Forced and Closed Adoption by Sherry Bridgette Healey:

In her haunting memoir, A Real Nobody A Fake Somebody and Me, Sherry Bridgette Healey unveils a lifetime of secrets buried beneath layers of deception. Born into anonymity, Sherry Bridgette’s existence was erased by a government mandate, and from the moment she took her first breath, she was condemned to a life of invisibility, and forced to become ‘Sherry.’ But behind this facade of non-existence lies a tale of resilience, redemption, and the relentless pursuit of truth as the true identity of Bridgette, voices her story.
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From the depths of abandonment to the heights of self-discovery, her journey is a testament to the power of the human spirit. As she unravels the tangled web of lies that shroud her past, she confronts the ghosts of her childhood, navigating a treacherous landscape of psychological abuse and emotional neglect. But amidst the darkness, glimmers of hope emerge as Bridgette discovers the power of embracing her fractured identity and reclaiming her stolen heritage.
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As she unveils the layers of her fragmented self, she invites readers to explore the secret underbelly of institutionalized adoption practices, drawing chilling parallels to the darkest chapters of history. But A Real Nobody A Fake Somebody and Me is more than a memoir – it’s a rallying cry for justice, and a roadmap for healing and transformation to all who have felt the pain of rejection and the trauma of lost identity and the ongoing injustices and violations against our basic human rights. With raw honesty, poignant insights, and practical wisdom, Bridgette shares her journey from victim to victor, inviting readers to join her on an expedition of healing and transformation, inspiring hope in the hearts of those who dare to reclaim their true selves.

​Hip Hop x Finance: Become a Financial Gangster! Get off Debt Row and Stack your Cash Flow by Drew Boyer:

Hip Hop x Finance is a unique financial guide that blends personal finance education with the powerful influence of hip-hop culture. Written by a 20+ year veteran of the financial services industry and CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER®, author Drew Boyer takes readers on an engaging journey through the all-to-common money mistakes, lessons, and successes that shaped both his own financial journey and the world of hip-hop.
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Drawing from personal experiences of making financial missteps in his early adulthood, Drew parallels his story with the financial rise and fall of famous hip-hop artists. From the extravagant lifestyles of MC Hammer and 50 Cent to the financial wisdom of moguls like Jay-Z and Dr. Dre, Hip Hop x Finance uses real-life examples from the music industry to illustrate critical money lessons including managing debt, building cash flow, investing wisely, and avoiding common money pitfalls.
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With chapter titles inspired by iconic hip-hop tracks, clever wordplay, and excerpts of classic rhymes, the book entertains while providing practical education on how to turn financial struggles into wealth-building opportunities for Gen X, Y, and Z. Break free from the "Debt Row" trap, become an entrepreneurial hustler to stack your cash flow, and learn the basic tricks about how to build lasting financial success.

​Activate Your Future Self: The Secret to Effortlessly Becoming the Happiest, Healthiest and Wealthiest You by Mimi Bouchard

FINALLY GET EVERYTHING YOU WANT OUT OF LIFE
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​In this transformative book, Mimi Bouchard, founder of the revolutionary Activations app, offers simple but powerful strategies to shift every aspect of your life – from your health and relationships to your career and finances – and help you become the happiest, most successful, most abundant version of yourself. You’ll discover how to:

• Gain clarity on what your dream life looks like and what you really want

• Change your self-image and become your Future Self through visualization, mental rehearsal, Activations, writing prompts and more

• Maintain your Future Self frequency every day using Mimi’s unique achievement tool, the Bounce Back Rate™

You have potential inside of you that you haven’t tapped into yet. This book will show you how to achieve that potential, quickly recover from setbacks and finally become who you’ve always wanted to be. Remember: to create the life you want, you must first become the kind of person that has it.
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It’s time to activate your Future Self.

​Moving Forward with Bold Uncertainty by Lisa Rose:

How do I move forward? What will this new life hold for me?

If others can get "there," will I be able to get "there" too? What does "there" even look like for me, anyway?

Those of us dealing with separation, divorce, or significant loss face difficult questions like these. Author Lisa Rose explores answers to them, sharing raw, personal stories from her own journey through divorce and toward discovering her "there."

Life has a way of sending storms into our lives that make us face how harsh reality can be. Setbacks, mistakes, and missteps might cause us to stumble. Failures, hurdles, and disappointments might sneak up on us. Losses, rejection, and exclusion might catch us by surprise.

A retired Christian life coach, Lisa helps others find answers and shares eight pivotal lessons guiding readers in figuring out their own "there", cultivating the necessary grace and courage to let go of what once was to Moving Forward with Bold Uncertainty into a life full of hidden blessings and unexpected new beginnings. Whatever challenge we face, there are possibilities out there to claim, if we are ready and bold enough to step forward to grasp them.

​The Science of Miracles: One doctor's journey to find hope and healing beyond the broken medical system by Robin Youngson

Driven by childhood trauma, a passionate engineer turned doctor confronts the suffering within the medical system. Expecting to find compassion and care, he instead encounters a broken, inhumane and corrupt system. As his journey leads him to question his own deeply held beliefs, he uncovers an urgent need for strategies prioritizing human connection over technical fixes.

Through profound encounters with patients and wise teachers, the author discovers a new scientific reality where healing flourishes and miracles occur daily – insights with the potential to transform medical practice. After winning New Zealand's highest medical award, he makes a bold decision to leave the system and embrace his true calling as a healer and teacher.

This honest and captivating medical memoir explores how societal myths and trauma misshape our beliefs, and our innate capacity to heal. Blending cutting-edge neuroscience with extraordinary stories of compassion and healing, this book offers fresh insights and new hope by showing how challenging our assumptions can transform our lives and the world we are part of.

I hope you will take the time to check out one of these books – or even work on your own!

To you and your book!

Megan